2008 has been a tumultuous year for the global economy but to me it has been a fair one. Nothing spectacular or unfortunate happened during this period. Some of you might think that I was lucky to have been spared the pains and sufferings that were engulfing people around the world. Was I really that blessed? Well, one thing for sure, like anyone of you, I do have my fair share of ups and downs. I’m not immune to miseries or misfortunes. I have simply chosen not to succumb to them. Rather than attributing it to being lucky, I prefer to give credit to a belief that I have always upheld – the belief that there are always people who are worse off than me.

Very often when calamity strikes, our initial reaction would be one of disbelief, followed by the assignment of blame and finally an indulgence in self-pity. Though many people understand that such self-pity would eventually lead to self-destruction, most still choose to dwell on their own sorrows rather than face reality. On the positive side, there are those who would seek spiritual support through their prayers; others find comfort in the arms of their loved ones. However, on the other extreme, there are people who choose to drown their anguish in liquor or worse still vent their frustrations on those close to them.

Having been through a number of crises, I discovered that the only person, whom I can really rely on to see me through the difficult periods, is none other than MYSELF. Though my family members and friends did offer their ears and shoulders, I realised that, ultimately, I have to be able to convince myself that whatever I was going through wasn’t really that a big deal. There are people who have encountered far worse problems and yet not crumple under the pressure. I learn to count my blessings and to appreciate what I have rather than to envy what others have. This spirit of gratitude and appreciation has helped me through the darkest moments of my life. Thus, the next time, you find yourself fretting over not having a pair of matching shoes to go with your smart outfit, give a thought to those who have no legs.

As we approach the end of another year, may we let go of this year, with all its sadness and joys, relief and regrets. Indeed, we should all start the new year afresh and have a great year ahead. So let’s eat while we can; enjoy while we can; love while we can and most importantly, live while we can. Be happy, be contented. Count your blessings, not what you're missing!